Hi My Friends!
It’s Friday!! Yay!! We made it to another weekend. 🙂 I hope you’re having an awesome day. Today I’d like to discuss Little names and why they are a very important part of your journey into age play and Little Space. William Shakespeare once said, “a rose by any other name would smell just as sweet”. Well, that may be so, but you can’t have just any little name. It doesn’t work that way. Entering into little space is much like a performer walking on stage. You become the persona that you wish to project. You suspend your mind and dive into a world of imagination. It’s a happy place filled with laughter, plushies, cuddles, and everything bright and beautiful. It’s a place where innocence takes the forefront and you can leave your cares behind. It’s a magical space made just for you and your dominant.
When you enter little space you also leave behind your “real” identity. You embody a new name, your little name, and that name holds great power to you. Over time you might, (as I have), prefer to be called by your little name on a more regular basis. For me, the journey to my little name was a progression. In my submissive training with my Daddy, we began with a ceremony where he collared me and gave me my first little name: Mouse. I didn’t like mouse but I understood why he was giving it to me. He wanted me to feel small and fragile. While my natural personality is that of a leader and fierce, he wanted me to slow down and let go in little space. He wanted me to learn to submit, and lean unto him. So I adopted the name mouse. It took time to respond to the name naturally, but eventually I did. When my training was complete he did another smaller ceremony and gifted me another beautiful collar complete with my final name: kitten.
For some littles they have an idea of what they’d like their name to be in the D/s relationship. But I’d like to think that choosing a little name is like a seductive dance between you and your dom/domme. He purrs a name at you, and instantly you know in your soul if it resonates or not. I could never be an angel or princess. Those are a bit too “fluffy” for my taste. But when Daddy purrs “baby girl” off his tongue, a get goosebumps over my skin. You’ll know what feels right as soon as you hear it. Trust me. 🙂 Until then, here are a few submissive names to think about as you continue on your journey as a little:
- Baby Doll
- Baby Girl
- Cutie Pie
- Honey Bun
- Little Girl
- Little Boy
- Little One
As you can see from the list above, there are many names for you to choose from. (And this list is only a fraction of the names out there!). My advice to you is to find a name that resonates on a deeper level. I am kitten because I’m usually cold, so my Daddy finds me curled up under a pile of blankets with my head peeping out. Ask your dominant to think of a name that reflects who you are as a person. Pick a name that makes you smile when you say it aloud. Together you will find that name that lifts your heart and makes little space feel magical. Until then, keep smiling, laughing, and stay radical my friends! ❤