Hi My Friends!
Today is day 2 of “100 Days of Dom-Sub Bonding”, and today’s activity is coloring a Cg/l coloring page together! Now I admit that I was a tad late to the “adult coloring” game. When I first heard about adult coloring books I quirked an eyebrow. Coloring? As an adult? Isn’t that a tad… boring? It wasn’t until I gave it a full-fledged try that I understood why this hobby is so wildly popular.
There is something special about coloring, drinking coffee together, whatever the activity may be, but doing something low-key and letting conversation flow organically. You’re together in the moment, just being, as you talk and divulge your feelings. There is space for you to bear your soul to your partner and just let go. Lately the holidays were difficult for me. Far more difficult than I could have ever anticipated. But with the love and support of my husband, I was able to push through. Which leads me to today’s activity: coloring.
It isn’t about the coloring that makes this activity so great to connect with your dom. Yes, you can go into Little Space and just unwind. But take the time to just talk, be playful, and express yourself. If you’re mentally bogged down (as I was) then have them hold space so that you can color quietly and softly express what’s on your heart. Then hold space and let them talk about anything on their mind too. Move slowly, and savor time together. That’s what today’s activity is all about.
I hope you all enjoy today’s bonding activity. Stay tuned for the next post. Have a wonderful rest of the day everyone, and as always, keep on smiling! 🙂