Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby (Part 5): Jelqing, a New Form of Cock Worship [10-Part Series]

Hi My Friends!

Last night I was curled up on my bed with oiled hands, ready to dive into this sexual experiment with my Daddy. The results left us both incredibly satisfied, but before I tell you how we ended up in a very satisfied heap together, let’s start at the beginning.

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“Kitten, I want you to jelq me” he said to me a few weeks ago. I blinked at him confused. Now I’ve been around the block a time or two, and have heard many sexual terms thrown around, but this was a new one for me. “To what?” I asked tilting my head slightly. He flipped his phone around to reveal a website with step-by-step instructions on how to jelq, and why. (He knows that I love some step-by-step instructions, and that by getting some I would be more inclined to trying something new. Sexually, anyway. Good man *smirks*). So I grabbed his phone and began reading.

Jelqing: is the art of stroking the penis slowly and steadily, while the penis is semi-flaccid to increase girth, strengthen erection hardness, and to increase time before ejaculation. 

I quirked an eyebrow at him. “You don’t have issues in the… girth department” I said in a sly tone, giving him a naughty grin. He grinned back at me, knowing that I was down to try this anyway. However, in true nerd fashion I grabbed my notebook and pen while we jumped into the moment together so that I could scribble notes for this blog post. He didn’t mind. In fact, we both learned so much.

But first, here’s a “how to jelq” for you:

Step 1: Lubricate

Before starting the jelqing exercise, lubricate the penis with Vaseline, baby oil, or any penis lubricant.

Step 2: Erection level

Bring the penis erection a level to 50 or 75% by stroking the penis slightly. Your penis needs to be relaxed so that it can be easy to push the blood through it. Remember not to perform jelqing with the full erection.

Step 3: OK-grip

Use the thumb and the point finger to form the OK-grip.

Step 4: Start at base

Next, place the OK-grip around the base of penis that is close to the pubic bone.

Step 5: Move up

With a light pressure on the OK-grip, move it up the penis slowly. The suitable jelqing pressure does not hurt, but pushes the blood up your penis effectively.

Step 6: Stop before glans

Finish the OK-grip before reaching your glans. Note that you just completed a jelq! Each should take about 2 – 3 seconds. (Source)

I. Cock Worship: 

So, when my Daddy and I transitioned into becoming a D/s couple, one of the first things we did was to sit down with a BDSM kinks and fetishes checklist. Then we swapped lists to see what things we each enjoy and want to try. It was eye opening and since that day I knew that cock worship was important to my husband. Now, given that I don’t have a penis, I don’t really feel the same drive towards cock worship as he does. (Duh, right?). However, as his submissive, I aim to please him in all that I do. Therefore, even though I didn’t know very much about how to cock worship… or how often to do it… I was determined to find a way to make it happen.

Now let me pause here for a moment. When it comes to oral sex, I am totally down with giving head. Ladies, if you want to make your dom turn to jelly and grin from ear to ear, drop to your knees and give him a blowjob. Just do it. You will feel empowered and so proud of yourself as he runs his fingers through your hair and groans from absolute pleasure. And he will be over the moon ready to cum in your mouth. It’s a win-win.

However, there are times when you don’t want to suck his cock. There will be days when you’re feeling icky, or time is short, or life is hectic and you’re flat exhausted, and the thought of taking the time to give head just seems… like a chore!

I present to you: jelqing. A new form of cock worship!

Instead of your mouth being put to work it’s your hands. So this exercise is much easier to do even if you’re tired from a long day. Have your Daddy sit across from you with his legs wide open.

** Important Note: A key factor in prepping his penis for jelqing is to warm it up just as you would warm up your muscles before exercise. I used a heating pad to wrap my Daddy’s penis in, but you can also use a warm towel. Wrap his cock in the heating pad or towel for 5-10 minutes prior to the first round of jelqing. By doing so, the penis remains warm and flaccid keeping blood flow to the area while relaxing the muscles around the groin. **

Using a lubricant, (I used coconut oil and it was amazing!), make an OK grip with your hands at the base of the penis. Slide your fingers up towards the head of the cock, stopping just at the glands area at the base of the head. Come in with your second hand, beginning at the base of the cock and doing the same movement. Repeat over and over as if you’re “milking” him.

II. Reassure Your Dom That It’s Okay to Orgasm Whenever, However, With or Without Ejaculation: 

I looked up into my Daddy’s eyes. “Let’s aim to get 5 orgasms in tonight, okay?” I said to him with a grin. His eyes bulged for a moment, and I could see him question if he could cum five times back to back to back. That’s when I laid a gentle hand on his calf and realized that there is just as much pressure on men to “perform” and cum during a sexual act as there is for women! I had no idea up until that moment, but it certainly makes sense. We are so hard-wired to think that the man has to “cream pie” his woman, or “jizz” on <insert body part here> that we forget that men can have an orgasm without ejaculation too.

So, I told my daddy as much. I told him to relax. Truly relax. That right here, and right now it was just him and I in this moment. That I was aiming to please him, by milking him. That when he was ready to cum… that he should. And that if he orgasmed without cumming, that was fine too. His whole body relaxed under my words.

III. Round 1… and 2… and 3… and 4 and 5! 

I began to milk him. With the coconut oil it was surprisingly easy to do. My tiny hands didn’t get exhausted one bit, because the coconut oil makes everything so slippery. (And it smells great too!). After keeping his penis warm in the heating pad, I took his semi-flaccid cock in my hands and began stroking him over and over following the instructions. I relished feeling him slowly stiffen in my palms. His eyes closed, as he leaned his head back in pure relaxation, enjoying the moment. As a sub, my heart was dancing with glee. I was giving my daddy that level of pleasure! YES!!

It wasn’t long before he came for the first round, my hands moving at the same, slow, steady pace milking him until he twitched just a tad. I cleaned him up, and then myself before offering him a cold, glass of water. He gulped it eagerly and sat back with a sigh. “That was round one…” I purred and wrapped his cock back up in the heating pad. I set the timer on my phone for 10 minutes and sat back to rest. It gave him enough time to cool down before I was ready to milk him again.

With each orgasm he reached I could see him growl with ecstasy. I had built him up slowly, and steadily, keeping my pace until he came. I never rushed the moment. I never pumped his cock as I felt his muscles spasm in my hands. I was always at that slow, steady pace, allowing him to finish when he felt like he should, and perhaps that’s what made his orgasms so strong. Again and again, he came in my hands and always I was there to clean him up… then myself… and give him 10 minutes of rest afterward. After cumming five times in a row, he was giggling softly at me. “It’s so tender!” he chuckled. I grinned back at him. “We’ll stop there” I teased, “but next time I’m pushing you to seven times”.

IV. The Results: 

I absolutely recommend that you try this activity with your partner. I felt so deeply connected in the moment with my Daddy as we did this together. Jelqing is a great substitute for when you just don’t want to have oral sex. It’s also amazing in that you feel empowered and proud of yourself that you gave so much pleasure to your dom. I have no idea if it will increase his girth… stamina… or whatever. He has always been enough in bed for me, and I’m fine with that 🙂

That’s it from me for this post, my friends. I hope you all enjoyed it. Stay tuned for the next one, and as always, keep on smiling! 🙂

~Penny Xx

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