Every now and then I stumble across a book, person, or product that makes me smile, and my fingertips tingle. I begin to peer in ever closer to examining the thing at hand with deeper curiosity. I judge it, and assess if I think it is sound, healthy, and reasonable. If so, I share it with you. This is one of those days.
It all began on Twitter.
If you’re not on Twitter, come say hi to me @littlepennyber1. I’d love to hear from you 🙂 Today I posted my daily little introspection post, and tacked it up on my Twitter as usual. Then, all of a sudden, a well known U.K. dominant replied with a lovely comment. Another dominant chimed in, and thus, a discussion began. I always love a good, healthy banter on Twitter when everyone is mature and actively listening to one another. Such was the case, and I began to dive deeper into Sir Dax.
“I wish there was a mentoring program” I said on Twitter, whilst sipping my cup of builders tea, “a program in which younger, less experienced dominants could turn to a veteran dominant with questions, comments, or concerns”. I made my tweet and sat back. My mind churned with deeper thoughts. Dominants have so much responsibility. They must be grounded and understand their needs, while taking care of their submissive. They must be confident, but not cocky. True confidence is silent, sure, and strong. They must guide their sub to help them achieve their personal goals, all while training them to yearn to be obedient. But how does a dominant learn how to do this? In society today, there are scarcely ways that a man can learn to be a dominant under vanilla terms. Men are crucified as misogynistic and vilified for having patriarchal views, when a true dominant in the world of BDSM is quite the contrary.
Which brings me to Sir Dax.
He is a veteran dominant of 45 years old, and many versatile experiences within the world of BDSM. He offers training services both online, and locally (based in the U.K.). He provides training for both dominants, and submissives, (and even couples too!) and gives a place for people to turn to when they’re new to the lifestyle, or are yearning for something more enriching. I love that he works with each person carefully to help them sort through their questions and concerns.
He can guide a submissive through the play session process in a safe, sane, and consensual way, (using safe words of course!), to give them the feeling of being completely dominated in the way we all crave. I even saw him mention that he provides plenty of aftercare to guide the submissive back down from a play session to then move back into their regular life and head space. He is thorough, experienced, and trusting. He places safety at the forefront of all interactions, and has a deep understanding of what the mindset of a real dominant entails.
For all of the dominants out there who are old and new to the lifestyle, I highly recommend you visiting Sir Dax’s website. His prices are incredibly reasonable, he provides a wide range of services, and is very active on social media to be prompt with a response time to potential clients.
To Sir Dax:
Thank you for using your knowledge to further help people in the community. It’s people like you, who deserve a spotlight and I’m honored to spread the word here on my blog. 🙂
I hope you all give his website a look. Stay tuned for the next topic, and have a beautiful night!