Day 42 of Little Introspection: Who Are Some People That You Look Up to in the BDSM Community? [Spotlight Post!]

Hi Friends!

I almost titled this, “You guys rock and I love you all SO much!” but I figured that was a bit too ambiguous lol. So, here I am…. talking about all of YOU! ❀ Yes, today I am shining a spotlight on all of you, and how much I learn from each and every one of you as I peruse your blogs, and learn more about your lives. The beauty of blogging is that we can sit down with digital pen and paper, open up a link to our minds, and invite the world in. I relish sitting with my cup of tea, nestled in a giant blanket, reading all of your blogs. I scroll through my reader feed slowly, and with great care. I squeal when I meet someone new (especially a kabayan!) and I long to be able to wave to you. I grin from ear to ear reading blogs by fellow Littles, or the occasional caregiver, and nod my head as I read along. I swoon with dilated pupils at the erotic writings of so many of you out there. Yes, all of youΒ truly are amazing! So, for today’s Little Introspection we are going to use our imagination for a moment.

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I’d like you to imagine that we’re in a giant, empty gymnasium. The room has high ceilings, but apart from a circle of metal folding chairs, nothing else is there. We all move silently, each taking a seat as we glance around at our new acquaintances. Each one of us comes from a different path in life, but here in this space, we become open books. Each holding a plethora of rich, intriguing stories just waiting to be explored. Now, let’s dive in.

I. Fellow Cg/l Bloggers:Β 

  • DDLG Training and Guide: I absolutely tip my hat to this wonderful caregiver/dominant who has put so much work into their blog. I especially love the FREE pdf guide of “How to Be a Daddy Dom” available for reading on their home page. (Please go check it out if you are new to the lifestyle! It’s quite comprehensive and a great read). You will also find many posts written about the psychology behind the Cg/l dynamic. So go give them a like and follow! You’re sure to love their blog. πŸ™‚
  • The Adventures of Little Panda: I absolutely love this blog, because like me, blogger Rebella writes about her life both as a Little and as a person. It’s like walking along in life with her, learning more about who she is. I highly recommend you hop over and check out her page. It’s wonderful! πŸ™‚
  • Eternity Trigger: Sometimes I like my BDSM and Cg/l knowledge to be fed to me in small doses (preferably on a pretty baby spoon). This is why I am highlighting Dust, over at Eternity Trigger as a blogger you should check out. Unlike so many other bloggers out there, he makes videos on all things BDSM and Cg/l. He is a Daddy and Masochist as well as identifying as a dominant and switch. He has extensive experience in various dynamics and shares his knowledge in video format for your enjoyment on each and every post! Go check him out! πŸ™‚

Β II. BDSM & Sex Bloggers:Β 

  • Peace and Fulfillment: When a fellow blogger steps forward to write so candidly about their life from a creative perspective, I become intrigued. Such as it is with Gristle over at his blog, Peace and Fulfillment, that is about male sexuality, sexual exploration, and the like. Like peering through a window into his mind, I love reading his posts and imagining him and his girlfriend out on their dates. Please go show him some love and follow his blog. It’s totally worth it!
  • Amelia’s Life: I also want to introduce you to Amelia. She is a beautiful soul and fellow submissive who has been in D/s relationships as well as M/s dynamics. Her blog chronicles her life journey as she guides us through her innermost thoughts. I love how raw, candid, and honest she is in her posts. It’s truly touching and moving to read and follow her regularly. I suggest you do the same, so go show her some love and follow her blog, my friends! πŸ™‚
  • Buwayahman’s Blog: I just came across this blog and I am so excited to share it with all of you! Buwayahman is a wonderful Filipino man, writing about life, relationships, dating, and everything in between. He also collaborates with the rest of us on “T.M.I. Tuesdays” so be sure to check out those weekly, delicious posts! While he has extensive experience writing about the “pay for sex” industry in Manila, I will certainly be curling up, and following his posts regularly to get to know the creative man behind the page. I hope you do the same and go follow his blog!
  • A Barbarian in Gentleman’s Clothing: Mr. A is a wonderful Filipino blogger who writes about men’s fashion and lifestyle articles, parenting, and self-help. He also is a regular blogger joining in the “T.M.I. Tuesday” posts, so be sure to check out some saucy details each week. I love how creative his posts are, and how he writes articles for his readers to feel uplifted, inspired, and to yearn to have greater confidence in themselves. Go give him a like and follow his blog!
  • Love is a Fetish: I absolutely love Nikki’s blog, Love is a Fetish, because she is so creative, talented, and simply stunning. Nikki is a photographer who specializes in taking erotic photos, showcasing the true beauty of a woman’s body. Her photos truly are a work of art and I know you will enjoy them just as much as I do! Go check her out and give her blog a follow!
  • Luv Honour Obey & Submission: I thoroughly enjoy following this blog by a fellow submissive who is married and in a D/s relationship. I love reading her posts because sometimes she describes how her and Sir attend fetish parties. Other times they have saucy play at home. And still other times she dives into her mindset as a submissive and details how Sir implements punishments for infractions incurred. Her posts are engaging, well written, and truly captivating. Please go check out her blog and give her a follow!
  • Empress Hexe and The Emperor: As someone who practices a different form of D/s relationship communication, (Daddy and I use compassionate communication as the basis of our dynamic), I loved discovering this blog by another married couple, and eclectic pair, Empress Hexe and The Emperor. They are spiritual shamans/pagans who practice a holistic approach to BDSM. They focus on the divine energies within each person to connect in a spiritual way. I just love reading their posts! If you’re interested in a holistic approach to BDSM, and sexual harmony, please go give their blog a follow!

III. Erotic Writers, Poets, and My Favorite Inspirational Bloggers:Β 

  • In10se Thoughts: AC Elliott at The Cracked Lens, is an incredible writer with a wide array of different forms of poetry. His posts are truly captivating from the moment you open them. While I have never been one who is big into poetry, I find myself eager to read his regular poems as his words truly paint images in my mind. I love his writings and I know you will too. So go give him a like and smash that follow button!
  • Erotic Story and Sex Story: If you love erotica as much as I do, then I know you will love this blog. What I love so much about this blog is that there is content from so many different types of kinks, fetishes, and fantasies. So browse through the vast amount of content and find a piece that suits your tastes. I know you will enjoy it as much as I do! Go give them a follow! πŸ™‚
  • Life’s Fine Whine: I love reading Pooja’s blog over at, Life’s Fine Whine, because she is a large food, fashion, and lifestyle blogger. She also writes the occasional poem and has many guest bloggers posting creative content on her site. So there is always something happening over on her blog. Go check her out and give her a follow. You won’t be sorry that you did! πŸ™‚
  • Blah Blah Blah JM: I absolutely love this girl’s blog. She is a writer, poet, and such a creative soul. I love how I can read her words slowly, and relate to her innermost thoughts. I always look forward to reading her blog because it’s about content that all of us feel. Emotions that we all share. Experiences that most of us have lived to tell the tale, and yet, she puts everything so eloquently that you’re taken in from the first word. Trust me, you’re going to want to follow this blog!
  • Frank Solanki: The last poet I want to highlight is fellow writer, Frank Solanki. His poems are just beautiful, and moving. Trust me when I say it is worth hopping over to his blog to check him out and enjoy the content he produces. You’ll be glad that you did. πŸ™‚

There are SO many more wonderful bloggers out there in the community, so if you weren’t highlighted today, never fear! I’ll be doing more of these spotlight posts in the future to share my love of all of YOU out there. Until then, have a wonderful Saturday everyone. Enjoy browsing these new faces and their amazing sites, and stay kind to each other! πŸ™‚

Much love,

~Kitten xx

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