Happy Wednesday! We’re halfway through the week. Take a breath, my friends. We’re approaching the weekend 🙂 . Today I am sharing my hopes and wishes for the future of the Cg/l community. Maybe you share some of these viewpoints too! Enjoy the post, now let’s dive in. ❤
I. No Cyber-bullying:
One of the hardest moments that I’ve experienced while blogging was definitely when I blogged about bratting. I got absolutely flamed by one person on Instagram. As a highly sensitive person it was so upsetting. I felt overwhelmed and personally attacked. Even when I tried reaching out to the person, they seemed so angry…. so aggressive… that nothing I did or could say would appease them. I tried every tactic I knew to try and calm the situation. Sadly, with that person, I ended up having to block them because all they did was try and attack me over and over again. They weren’t open to reason at all. One hope that I wish for the future of the Cg/l community is that every voice is heard. We all have different opinions on things, and it’s okay to be different. I welcome forms of expression and ideas that are different from my own.
One of the things that I love so much about being a Little is meeting other Littles! We are all different. Or as I like to think of it, we are an eclectic rainbow 😀 . Be your unique self! Be the little that YOU were meant to be, but also remember to be respectful and kind to others too. Treat everyone the way you wish to be treated. This blog is merely my opinion, or the opinions of those I interview and research. It is a place of advice and knowledge. But it should never dictate how you live your life. YOU decide what is right for you.
II. Greater Acceptance in the Vanilla World:
Another wish that I have for our community is that we are recognized with greater acceptance within the vanilla world. We are legal adults who choose to regress in age for a variety of reasons. Most of us are a happy, bubbly bunch of people who enjoy all things colorful and fun. Some of us enjoy the kink aspect of the lifestyle, while others simply find solace and comfort in regression itself. Neither one is right or wrong. All forms of expression within little space are valid. I know there are common myths and misconceptions about the Cg/l lifestyle. Oh, how I wish I could dispel these to the vanilla public!
No, caregivers are NOT pedophiles. No, most of us, Littles, do not walk around in onesies all day. No, we do not support minors in kink. And no, not all of us are even in the lifestyle for sexual reasons! My dear vanilla friends out there in this great big world, take heed: having a kink, fetish, fantasy, or alternative lifestyle choice DOES NOT make you weird, strange, awkward, or different. You are who you are. It’s as simple as that. Thank God that this world is full of vastly different people because it would be utterly boring if we were all the same! Now, go and learn more about us because we are a great group of people! 😉
III. A Deeper Understanding Between Those That Are Into Cg/l Kink vs. Those Who Are Not:
A while ago I wrote about the “great debate” which is the long-heated issue if Cg/l is considered a kink or not. Over time I have watched many people on social media from both sides attack each other. People who are “AgeRe” or “SFW” Littles want nothing to do with those who are into Cg/l or who has a dominant. (To be honest, I can’t understand why. There are many of us who are into Cg/l but who keep our content very “SFW”). Then there are those who are into age play and into the kink side of the lifestyle, and they attack those who are Little but don’t want to sexualize their little space. The whole thing is baffling. At the end of the day, what you do in the privacy of your bedroom is YOUR business and nobody else’s. No one should tell you what you should and should not do in your bedroom (so long as you aren’t doing something illegal obviously).
My hope is that over time, both sides of the age regression spectrum reach an understanding with each other. I hope that there is peace on both sides. I hope the kinkiest Littles out there embrace the non-sexual littles. Likewise, I hope the non-sexual littles accept and respect those who choose to express their little space differently. Because at the end of the day, that’s all it really boils down to: we’re all different. Not right, wrong, good, or bad. We’re just all different, and that’s okay. 🙂
Peace, love, and acceptance, my friends. That’s what it’s all about. Alright, I hope you all enjoyed this post. If you did, hit that like button and let me know! Stay tuned for the next topic, and have a wonderful Wednesday!
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