Good Morning Friends,
I hope you all are having a beautiful Friday and enjoying the weather. It’s another warm day here, which gives me time to reflect as I cool down in front of the fan. It has been one week since my week-long vacation with Daddy C. He just wrote about his reflections here on his blog, so please go and check that out! I wanted to follow suit, and share with you my reflections on how this first week has been since being apart and back into our long distance relationship.
This week has been kind of up and down. There have been moments where I’ve felt Daddy all around me. I admit that I’m a deeply feeling person. I openly state that I’m a highly sensitive soul who feels incredibly deep. Knowing this, Daddy did things to make the transition between vacation-life, and real-life that much smoother. From the moment we were about to part, he began really taking charge of giving me tasks. We fell back into our routine of saying good morning/goodnight via text to give me visual cues that the day was beginning to close, but that he was still there. But he went a step farther. He began pushing me to take more photos of myself daily. Before our trip this was a difficult task for me. I get nervous about my appearance.
But since being together, Daddy has reminded me that I am beautiful. So I snap pictures for him on the daily. He assigns tasks to keep me connected to him in body, mind, and spirit. Whether I’m practicing kneeling in the Nadu position, or talking to him on the phone and soaking up precious minutes. I come to him from a place of absolute, unconditional love. He swirls around me, always one step ahead, sending me emails of encouragement, text messages of love, and precious phone calls to soak in his voice again.
Now don’t get me wrong! This week hasn’t been all easy. Daddy has been brilliant with assigning me tasks to keep my bubbling mind busy and connected to him. But still, we have our very first real argument just the other day. Thankfully, he and I are like two tornadoes when it comes to anger and frustration. We snarl, calm down, talk it out, and then let it go. By the end of the day we were back to being loving and deeply connected again, and for that I’m deeply thankful.
So, how has it been since I last saw Daddy?
Well, I miss him. I miss him a lot. It sucks being so far apart. But if I focus on our vacation too much, I’m going to cry buckets. So instead, I turn my gaze forward towards the future. Or, as I like to say to Daddy, “I’m counting down by the holidays!”. October has Halloween and my birthday. November has Thanksgiving. And then finally, in December we will see each other again. When you look at it that way… it’s not so bad. 🙂 ❤
How do you all cope with being in a long distance relationship? Comment and let me know! I hope you all have a fantastic day, and I will see you back here for the next post!