Sex in Little Space, Part 2: Using Props to Enhance the Experience

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Good Evening Friends,

Tonight I feel quiet. I’m entering this post with total transparency. Tonight I’d like to discuss sex toys and other “props” that can enhance sex in Little Space. But before we dive into the various ways that those things can elevate the experience… I want to make it clear that it isn’t necessary. In fact, you don’t need anything at all to have sex in Little Space! Like any other style of intercourse and sexual play, sex in Little Space is all about the mindset. It’s one partner regressing mentally while the other partner leads. It’s that simple. As a minimalist I have to be forthcoming in saying that I don’t have a bunch of props lying around my home. I don’t need them to get into the moment. But here on my blog I like to present all options for you all to read, and take the info for yourself as you wish. Now that said, let’s dive in. ❤

I. Even Sex Toys Can Be Cute: 

I remember looking over at my husband a few years ago with a puzzled expression. “Am I… vanilla?” I asked him. He blinked at me and I cringed. “What? No. Why would you ask that?” he said, intrigued. I had been feeling out of place because when I entered the lifestyle I saw pictures of people turning their bedrooms into D.I.Y. dungeons. I saw floggers and paddles hung up on the walls. I saw anal plugs of varying sizes, (and after my own hilarious mishap with one that sent me to the E.R…. well, that just wasn’t happening!). I felt like an “outsider” at the time because when it came to sex toys, I didn’t see the need to have a large stash. I wasn’t opposed, but I also like connecting with my partner body to body.

In the world of sex and the sex industry, us Littles are often put into a “box”. People assume that we want to wear diapers, or onesies, and suck on pacifiers. Others assume that we like all things girly, and don’t get me wrong, if you like any or all of those things… that’s great!! Your Little Space should look like however you wish it to be. But, I wanted to see if it was possible to have sex toys that looked… cute! Did they all have to be black, pink, or purple? Did they all have to be so… mature? So, I did a little sleuthing and found that sex toys can look cute for Littles!! Here are a few links you might enjoy:

II. FUNishments and O.T.K. Spankings for Littles: 

If shopping for fun toys isn’t your jam, but you still want to spice things up then look no further than your palm, my friends. Yes, over-the-knee spankings, (when done in a healthy way), can be a pleasurable experience for everyone involved. Littles love to experience “FUNishments” or a punishment that is intended to tease, entice, while appearing to punish. Taking your little one over the knee exposes their bottom to you, (the dominant), and allows you the opportunity to do some sensual spanking and impact play.

Now, I have to pause here for a moment! There is a right and wrong way to properly spank someone. So, let’s look at a graphic together:

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The goal of an over-the-knee spanking during a little space sexual play session is pleasure with a small dose of pain. As always, please take the time to discuss any form of impact play before you engage, AND make sure that your partner gives full consent. (Keep it safe, sane, and consensual people! 😉 ). From my own personal experience, being spanked and cropped can be deeply arousing. You feel small, submissive, and weak while still feeling strong and powerful for being able to endure the spankings. It’s lovely. ❤

Other forms of “FUNishments” you might want to explore together as a couple can include:

  • Wearing a vibe while the dominant has the remote control
  • Having to go potty while the dominant watches
  • Making the Little try a new food (healthy!) that they are cautious about
  • Making them watch their favorite animated show in another language with no subs. (Watch them giggle into their hands). 😉
  • Have the little do chores around the house dressed up in a maid outfit… or perhaps in the dominant’s attire of choice.

III. Other Props for Play Sessions: 

There are times when you’ll want to use props to “set the tone” of a play session and that is understandable. It can be difficult to let go and ease into a moment, especially after a long day. Your little doesn’t “look” like a little unless they do something that is overtly indicative of age regression. As such, props help to set the mood! Here are my favorite companies that I have used in the past. This is not a comprehensive list, but I do have further links of my favorite online Cg/l shops and a giant list of A.B.D.L. resources for you to explore as you wish! 🙂

My Favorite Cg/l Companies: 

IV. All Things Edible: 

When it comes to little space, many littles are foodies like myself! Incorporating food can be a fantastic (and fun) way to guide your adult little into the head-space. Pull out their favorite snack and pour just a small bit into a bowl. (Remember to give them a child-sized portion). Put their favorite drink into their preferred sippy cup or bottle. Get flirty and fun with whipped cream, or get creative in the kitchen as you cook up a dish together. (This time of self-isolation is the PERFECT time to get cooking up something delicious!!). Here are a few other edible ideas to get your thinking cap on 😉 :

Alright my friends, that’s it from me for this post. I hope you all enjoyed it. If you did, hit that like button and let me know. Smash that follow button if you’re new around here, and I will see you back here for the next topic!

Much love,

~Kitten xx

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