Tiny Talk Tuesday #6: Financial Domination

Tiny Talk Tuesday

Good Morning Friends!

“Findom” is something spoken about here and there in the BDSM community, but is still a topic that is relatively obscure to the masses. In society we are often told to get a bank account, and learn healthy budgeting habits from an early age. While I wholeheartedly agree that learning to manage your money is important, today I want to pose 5 questions to you surrounding financial domination. For some, the act of being financially dominated is thrilling and arousing. Some “Fin-Dom/Dommes” online will have their clients give them total control over their bank accounts, and use humiliation as a way to keeping them in line with their submission. Other D/s couples lean towards the dominant being the primary breadwinner, and as such, give financial control to them. This can often be seen in Taken-In-Hand D/s relationships.

In the vast world of domination and submission there are bunches of ways to incorporate financial domination into your relationship, if that’s something that interests you and your partner. Here are five critical thinking questions to get your mind bubbling about this very subject. I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments below! Have a beautiful Tuesday everyone, and I will see you back here for the next topic!

Much love,


Tiny Talk Tuesday #6: Financial Domination 

  1. Are you attracted to the idea of being financially dominated? Why or why not? 
  2. If you engaged in financial domination, what are some ways you would protect yourself from scams and abuse? 
  3. Do you believe that financial domination and humiliation/blackmail should go hand in hand? Why or why not? 
  4. What aspects (if any), of your finances, would you relinquish control to your dominant? 
  5. What resources on financial domination have you found to be helpful? 


  1. Hi there, Penny! Omg like the cuteness of your posts intensifies. The way you opened up here and helped others to see what questions go into deciding to practice findom is so great! I like that you introduce thing that the little community may or may not be into by default and basically broaden our horizons!

    I’ve been into findom (or the idea of it rather) for as long as I’ve been a little! It just seems like the perfect excercise of dominant power to me. And littles aren’t exactly the most responsible with adult things, are they? 🙂 I really enjoy budgeting on my own time, but…for whatever reason I want to do that with someone else, or have them do it for me! What amazing control would it be to have to control someone’s budget! I’m in love with findom so if you wanna write another post about it then omg I think these questions would lead well into a post on the other aspects of findom! Maybe interview a findom/me O.o Omg. *the possibilities within my brain intensifies*

    Do have a great week and thanks for talking about one of my favorite topics 🙃 Maybe I’ll do a post that is inspired by this! Maybe I’ll write about budgeting because why not 🙂 We need that kind of thing as kinky people who buy many kinky things ^^ And like maybe it can help people figure out what they want to buy first and what they can wait on. Like maybe a budget or DIY post. That happens to have budgeting in it. Idk, making a post with questions in it and leaving a lot to our imagination has really made my imagination go wild. Thanks so much for today’s post ^^

    Keep being awesome and taking care of yourself, Penny! :>

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    1. Kuudere!! OMG yes, I absolutely would love to interview you about the findom kink, and how it resonates with you on a more personal (and daily) level! 🙂 Keep an eye out for an email from me with interview questions and we will make it happen!

      Like you, as a Little it also resonates with me to have my dominant take control of my finances. In addition, as someone living with anxiety, there is a peace of mind that comes from him having control over our money and him guiding me in what I purchase, if that makes sense. 🙂 I hope you write more about this topic as I’d love to learn from you too!! *BIG SQUEEZES*!! xx

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      1. lol thanks hehe. I’m just seeing this now. I used /me to exemplify the female version of dom but I’m glad it was read wrong because yay interviews xD

        lolol. I really hope you liked it. what am I saying of course you did. but if thats your experience with findom then omg I think our experiences overlap a ton! soooo sweet!

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      2. Your interview was absolutely wonderful, informative, and resonated a lot with me! You can’t see it, but I’m clapping my hands and lifting my tea mug to you! Hehe! ❤ 🙂 I hope you write more about findom on your blog too, because I think the community could learn so much from your wealth of knowledge. ❤ xx

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      3. Awwwwww thnx. I’m taking this to heart! :0 It may be hard to sometimes, but regardless of how sweet this sounds I also know it’s a hundred percent true 🙂 And it’s very helpful for me to look at myself from this perspective ❤ Thank you so much ^^

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