Good Evening Friends!
Tonight we all snuggled up on Discord and watched Pixar’s “Cars” together. This movie is such a fun story about learning to be humble and appreciating friendships over titles, trophies, and accolades. One character is a wise, old retired race car named Doc Hudson. Tonight we’re going to discuss how Doc teaches us the valuable lesson of discretion, and how we can apply these same skills in our own D/s relationship. Are you ready to explore more with me? Then, let’s dive in! 🙂
I. Doc Hudson:
Discretion: keeps our mind and focus on sound judgement, giving serious attention and thought to what is going on. It will carefully choose our words, attitudes, and actions, to be right for any situation, thus avoiding words or actions that could result in adverse consequences or causing offence.
Once upon a time in the small, forgotten town of Radiator Springs, an old race car named Doc Hudson lived and cared for all of the locals. Doc went about his day, caring for the sick and treating the other cars for every ache and pain. He also was the town judge and passed judgement with a fair and steady hand. So, when a shiny, new race car named Lightening McQueen came into town destroying the only road into Radiator Springs, Doc was there to preside over the court hearing. He ordered Lightening McQueen to fix the road. At first, Lightening tried to do a poor job. He just wanted to get back to the race track. He wanted to zoom back to his famous life. But Doc knew that once upon a time, he too had been just like Lightening McQueen with his priorities all out of place. So, he challenged Lightening to a race around the dirt track just outside of the city. If Lightening could beat Doc then he could go free. If not, then he had to remain in Radiator Springs and repair the road. Doc knew that Lightening’s impulsive driving would cause him to slip and slide over the dirt.
As the movie goes on Doc begins to teach Lightening everything he learned over the years. After realizing that Doc was a famous race car from years ago, he begins to listen and learn his teachings. At that time Doc could have boasted about all of the titles and trophies he won. He could have become arrogant towards Lightening and held his knowledge to himself. But instead, Doc simply wanted to help the race car become a better version of the young race car he had once been. He cared and that was enough for him to open up. Doc chose to teach Lightening with discretion. He went on to become Lightening’s racing manager because Lightening trusted Doc’s judgement and wisdom above everyone else. It was that trust that led Lightening to help the Dinoco car at the final race. Doc had taught him morals and values that Lightening didn’t have before. It is Doc’s discretion, sound judgement, compassion, and patience that makes him an excellent role model for Littles!
II. Disney Bounding Outfit:
III. Little Space Activity: Popsicle Stick Car Art!
IV. Personal Development Lesson:
There will be many times when we need to apply discretion to our D/s lifestyle. When we are in the company of vanilla people this is especially important. Does our submission or domination stop when we are out in public or at a function with vanilla people? No. But do we need to alter our behavior slightly to protect ourselves and our dominant? Of course. Here are a few ways to use discretion in your own D/s relationship:
- Consider having a day collar and a night collar. Your day collar can be a necklace that you wear out and about without it being too obvious that it’s a collar versus your night collar being a more traditional collar.
- Try having two titles for each partner. You can have a name that you call each other in private and another name that you can call each other while out in public.
- Wear lifestyle clothing items in a discreet way underneath your clothing (diapers, Cg/l themed panties, cock cages, etc.) or wear onesies, or shirts that blend into a more mainstream outfits to wear in public.
- Establish small cues between you and your partner when you’re out in public but feel the need to regress.
For more ideas check out my post about “20 Ways to Be a Kinky Couple in Public”.
Alright my friends, that’s it from me for today’s post. I hope you all enjoyed it. If you did, hit that like button and let me know. Smash that follow button if you’re new around here. And I will see you back here for the next topic!
Don’t forget to come chat with me and all of my Little and Dominant friends at: The Berry Patch Tomorrow we will be watching “The Princess and the Frog” from 5-7 pm PST. I hope you will join us!!
I can’t wait to chat with all of you!!