The Mid-West U.S. Regional Guide to Kink and BDSM

I. Illinois: 

Dungeons, Stores, and Conventions to Know: 

Munch Groups: 

Chicago

Chicago Leather Club
The Chicago Leather Club is dedicated to serving the L/l, gay, lesbian, bi, transgender, transexual, intersexed, and fetish communities. We support the community with our own educational outreach seminars and we also support many worthy causes

Chicago Switch- Midway Munch

Crimson Moon Ltd
Chicago’s Spanking Headquarters for adult spanking parties, toys, lifestyle videos, advice, party etiquette, and real life opportunities to meet and play with other adults in the spanking social scene.

Galleria Domain 2

Leather Archives
In addition to activities in Chicago, the LA&M serves the leather world by preserving material from all leather communities, sending

Leather SINS
Leather SINS is a kink friendly Social Dinner Club made up of like minded individuals. Originally founded in April 2001 to meet the social needs of residents of the North Shore of Chicago, our membership has grown and we now have over 400 members from Indiana, Wisconsin, Michigan, Illinois and the entire Metropolitan Chicago Area. In addition we also have over 500 Event Members that have attended a Leather SINS Event in the past.

Quad Cities

Riverbound
Riverbound is a pansexual BDSM group located in the Quad City area of Iowa and Illinois. (Davenport and Bettendorf in Iowa, and Rock Island and Moline in Illinois.) Our group is open to any 21 years of age or over interested in BDSM and D/s including lifestylers, casual players, or simply those with interest.

II. Michigan: 

BDSM Dungeons and Events to Know: 

Munch Groups in Michigan: 

MiChatOhs

Battle Creek

Battle Creek Munch Bunch

Detroit

Detroit Bondage Club
The DBC is a play club for GAY men who share a passionate interest in bondage SM, leather and rubber.

MDSS

Michigan Rope
Michigan Rope is a discussion group for people who are interested in bondage and other BDSM activities. We are based in SE Michigan (metro Detroit area) but anyone is welcome to join. We share information and discuss techniques, safety, the psychology of using rope, and events of interest.

Michiana Area

Alternative Lifestyles of Michiana

Saginaw

Saginaw Valley Deviant’s Munch Page

III. Minnesota: 

Dungeons and Groups to Know: 

Munch Groups in Minnesota: 

Mankato

Southern MN kinky community
Plain clothes group that meets the second wed and third sunday in mankato. there is more information here https://fetlife.com/groups/2368

Minneapolis

Atons
The Atons, founded in 1972, is one of the nation’s oldest active gay men’s Leather / Levi social fraternity. We are dedicated to promoting a positive image of our lifestyle through our various social activities.

Knights of Leather
The Knights of Leather is a private, pansexual leather, bdsm social organization based in Minneapolis, Minnesota.

Minnesota Stocks, Debentures and Bonds
MSDB is a Minnesota-based organization for people who are actively involved or seriously interested in BDSM lifestyles and activities. MSDB provides social and educational activities and information to its members and to the BDSM community at large. Membership is open to adults 18 or older, regardless of sexual or gender orientation, religious belief, ethnic origin, or physical ability.

Twin Cities

Minnesota Kinky Youngsters
Our aim is to reach local people between the ages of 18-35 to help them make informed decisions on their lifestyle choices through educational classes and recreational gatherings.

TIES
An organization for the Leather, B&D, D/S, S&M, and other kinky acronym people in the Twin City area. We promote erotic play that is safe, sane, and consensual. We are pansexual, pro-freedom, and pro-sex.

IV. Wisconsin: 

Groups to Know: 

BDSM Munch Groups in Wisconsin: 

Chippewa Valley Alternative Lifestyle Support Group

NEWDs: North East Wisconsin D/s

Eau Claire

Chippewa Valley Alternative Lifestyles

Madison

Satyricon
Satyricon is a non-profit, pansexual group in Madison, Wisconsin that
supports the free and open exploration of safe, sane, and non-exploitative
BDSM as practiced by consenting adults.

Milwaukee

Milwaukee Munch

V. Iowa: 

Groups to Know: 

Munch Groups in Iowa: 

Ames

CUFFS
Cuffs is a discussion group for people who want to learn more about kink, fetish, BDSM, and other expressions of safe, consensual, and non-exploitative human sexuality. Topics for meetings may include how to meet a play partner safely, flogging technique, negotiating a scene, sexual assault prevention, homemade toys, and others.

Membership is open to all ISU students, faculty, staff, and their spouses or partners. A limited number of persons not affiliated with ISU may also be invited to join.

Cedar Rapids

CROP
CROP is committed to providing educational opportunities and a safe social atmosphere to people who are interested in the BDSM lifestyle and culture.

Des Moines

Corn Haulers
The CORN HAULER (two words, not one) LEATHER AND LEVI CLUB is an alternative organization for gay men and women. Yes, we wear leather and/or levis as a statement, as a fashion or because of both reasons.

DADG Productions
DADG Productions is a non-profit organization. We are a pansexual BDSM support group open to adults who are heterosexual, gay, lesbian, bisexual, or trans gendered individuals.

Iowa City

Naughty Iowa City Eccentrics
We are a friendly organization focused on providing an environment so members interested in the lifestyle can interact, network, and even educate one other.

You should join this group if you have an interest in the lifestyle and if you are interested in associating with a community.

Quad Cities

Riverbound
Riverbound is a pansexual BDSM group located in the Quad City area of Iowa and Illinois. (Davenport and Bettendorf in Iowa, and Rock Island and Moline in Illinois.) Our group is open to any 21 years of age or over interested in BDSM and D/s including lifestylers, casual players, or simply those with interest.

Tri-States area

TriStates Power Exchange
We are a group of people from the Iowa – South Dakota – Nebraska tristates area interested in consensual power exchange.

Waterloo

NEIPEX
NEIPEX is committed to establishing a safe community environment for educational opportunities and social gatherings for those with a serious and personal interest in BDSM. Located near Waterloo, IA and surrounding areas. All members are welcome.

VI. North Dakota: 

Munch Groups in North Dakota: 

Agassiz Valley BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Promoting education in BDSM lifestyle, and safe, sane, consensual play among its members. Desires to help everyone learn new techniques in all the various facets of this lifestyle. Welcomes exchange amongst our members with strong emphasis on safety and respect. Planning educational munches.

Coteau des Prairies deSades, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Coteau des Prairies deSades, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-19
Kink aware individuals with a core focus on BDSM, but we are open to all forms of fetish, kink, and alternative lifestyles. Monthly munches.

Fargo/Moorhead crossdressers, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-09
For crossdressers, tv, ts and the women that are into them, to meet and talk

Fargo Moorhead Fetlifers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For anyone in the fargo moorhead area to meet each other

Fargo Moorhead Power Xchange, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
BDSM inclined group, who are active in the community. We have standard core values like education, safety and consent.

Glacier Lake Area Fet Lifestylers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Fargo based. Welcomes those into the kinky lifestyle as well the swingers lifestyle. Doesn’t matter your gender, sexual orientation or role or even if you are just curious. To provide information about local and regional groups, as well as promote safety, awareness and education.

Greater Williston North Dakota Area Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For any kinksters that view Williston as being within “driving distance”.

Heartland Crossing, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
Heartland Crossing, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
For crossdressers, transvestites, sissies, genderplayers, transpersons, and their admirers and/or lovers; or those who are respectfully curious about the same. CO-IA-IL-IN-KS-MI-MN-MO-MT-ND-NE-NM-OH-OK-SD-TX-WI-WY.

Herds of North Dakota, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For the pony, pony enthusiast, or otherwise pony inclined folks in North Dakota.

Midwest BDSM’ers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For all those local to the Great Lakes region seeking to connect with fellow kinksters and like minded individuals. All are welcome to join and participate regardless of orientation,fetish preference or gender identity.

Midwestern Kinky Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Welcome to all post and come and make friends from the Midwestern and who know what you might get into.

MN Dakota Co op, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Encourages knowledge, safety, consent, discretion, acceptance. For Kink & Fetish aware people in the tri-state and surrounding areas.

North Dakota Dungeon, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-19, INACTIVE

North Dakota Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For kinksters living in or around North Dakota. All subjects welcome. We’re trying to learn about each other in this great state.

Northern Plains Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Dedicated to bringing those who are interested in exploring BDSM in the in the Prairie Provinces and States of the Northern Great Plains. Mission: unity and education within the confines of BDS&M.

Red River Valley Kinky and Geeky, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-28
Talk about conventions, area gaming events, movies, books, comics, podcasts, board gaming, role-playing games, LARP, cosplay, CCGs, television, computer and console gaming, etc. MB-MN-ND

Roping ND – Cowboys, Angels and lots of knotty fun, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-17
For those in or traveling to the Fargo – Moorhead area into having fun with ropes: Rope clothing, restraints, suspension, knots, toy making, bondage

The Sanctuary of Knowledge of North Dakota, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-28
A safe place to learn about fetishism, safe sane play, finding locals, munches, events, and general knowledge of the lifestyle. Feel free to ask and/or answer questions at any time.

South Dakota Kinksters and its Neighbors ND, NE, MN, IA, WY, and MT, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For people interested in BDSM lifestyles in and around South Dakota to find a playmate, share knowledge, and have fun.

Submissive Support Group (ND, MN, SD, MT), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-17
Goal: Exchange knowledge and support to one another through the trials and tribulations of being a submissive. Safe haven for knowledge exchange, education on submission, and playful banter.

Winnipeg and area Goreans, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-19
Dedicated to those in the Winnipeg area (including Grand Forks, ND) who live, want to live, or want to learn more about living a Gorean lifestyle.

VII. South Dakota: 

Munch Groups in South Dakota: 

Agassiz Valley BDSM, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-25
Promoting education in BDSM lifestyle, and safe, sane, consensual play among its members. Desires to help everyone learn new techniques in all the various facets of this lifestyle. Welcomes exchange amongst our members with strong emphasis on safety and respect. Planning educational munches.

Bound in Siouxland, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-26
For BDSM kinksters interested in finding and creating a more cohesive community, on local, state and national levels through educational programs and by general exchange of information along with promoting ethical values & knowledge in local BDSM community. On-line discussions, munches, demos & parties.

Brookings Book Club, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
Expected to be a twice a month event in Brookings

Coteau des Prairies deSades, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
Coteau des Prairies deSades, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-18
Kink aware individuals with a core focus on BDSM, but we are open to all forms of fetish, kink, and alternative lifestyles. Monthly munches. Eastern SD-southeastern ND-western MN-and northern IA-NE border.

Heartland Crossing, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
Heartland Crossing, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
For crossdressers, transvestites, sissies, genderplayers, transpersons, and their admirers and/or lovers; or those who are respectfully curious about the same. CO-IA-IL-IN-KS-MI-MN-MO-MT-ND-NE-NM-OH-OK-SD-TX-WI-WY.

Midwest BDSM’ers, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
For all those local to the Great Lakes region seeking to connect with fellow kinksters and like minded individuals. All are welcome to join and participate regardless of orientation,fetish preference or gender identity.

Midwestern Kinky Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
Welcome to all post and come and make friends from the Midwestern and who know what you might get into.

MN Dakota Co op, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-25
Encourages knowledge, safety, consent, discretion, acceptance. For Kink & Fetish aware people in the tri-state and surrounding areas.

Northern Plains Kink, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
Dedicated to bringing those who are interested in exploring BDSM in the in the Prairie Provinces and States of the Northern Great Plains. Mission: unity and education within the confines of BDS&M. MT-ND-SD-WY

NW Iowa, SE South Dakota, NE Nebraska Kinksters United, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
Not a swingers club! For any persons within traveling distance of Sioux City,Iowa of ANY sexual liking, whether it is of oreintation, gender,or whatever

Omaha Power Exchange, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
OPEX, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-18
Dedicated to providing opportunities for like-minded folks to get together, socialize, discuss issues of power exchange, living in D/s and M/s relationships, and have a great time making friends.

Rapid City Bottoms Up, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-30
For local spanking lovers to meet and possibly get together.

Rapid City Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
A community dedicated to getting together online and in real life in the Rapid City area for discussing and exploration of BDSM, kink, and fetish.

SD/MN/IA/NE 4 corners area-Friends in BDSM/Poly, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
SD/MN/IA/NE 4 corners area-Friends in BDSM/Poly, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-18
South Dakota based group created as a place for BDSM/Poly minded people living in the SD/MN/IA/NE 4 corners area to meet and get aquainted.

Sioux Falls Social, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
Group Purpose: Proposed topics or related suggestions; Sharing what topics have been scheduled; Proposed locations and timing for socials; Sharing scheduled socials and their locations; Recapitulations after socials.

South Dakota AB/DL’s, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
For anyone who is into this ABDL lifestyle in any way.

South Dakota Kink, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
For any South Dakota resident of any sexual variety – whether that variety be of orientation, (trans)gender, or paraphilia.

South Dakota Kinksters and its Neighbors ND, NE, MN, IA, WY, and MT, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
For people interested in BDSM lifestyles in and around South Dakota to find a playmate, share knowledge, and have fun.

South Dakota Personals, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
Post introductions, start conversations about personal interests/fetishes, as well as what you’re looking for in a partner (whether sexually, romantically, or D/s-wise, or even if you’re just looking for a teacher).

Submissive Support Group (ND, MN, SD, MT), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-17
Goal: Exchange knowledge and support to one another through the trials and tribulations of being a submissive. Safe haven for knowledge exchange, education on submission, and playful banter.

TriStateBDSM_lifestyle, see SD/MN/IA/NE 4 corners area-Friends in BDSM/Poly

Western South Dakota Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-18
For people in western South Dakota, North Dakota, Nebraska, and eastern Wyoming to gather and get to know one another.

Western States Veteran Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-11
For Vets, Disabled Vets and Active Duty men and women, that need help with various issues that concern us. Be it legal help due to BDSM concerns, job search help, website links and many items of interest. AZ-CA-CO-ID-MT-ND-NM-NV-OR-SD-UT-WA-WY

VIII. Nebraska: 

Dungeons and Groups to Know: 

IX. Kansas: 

Dungeons in Kansas: 

Munch Groups in Kansas: 

Kansas City

Alternative Hedonistic Source
AHS is an educational and social resource for those interested in BDSM and Fetish activities and lifestyles. AHS encourages adults who are interested in or curious about BDSM & fetish lifestyles and relationships to come together in one place to exchange scene related thoughts and ideas, and to become acquainted with others with similar interests.

Topeka

Dark Whispers of the Soul
A BDSM dungeon & social clublocated in Topeka, KS,
that promotes education, support and the opportunity to interact with others in the lifestyle in a safe and supportive environment. DWoTS strives to be welcoming and inclusive for those wanting to take that first step or just continue to grow in the lifestyle. Hopefully, you\’ll find one or more opportunities with DWoTS that are just what you need.

Wichita

TPE
Total Planetary Exchange (TPE)

The overall theme is interplanetary. The beauty of this is that we ALL that in common whether Vulcan, betelguese, Twilek, earth or transvestites from transsexual Transylvania.

An all inclusive company of individuals including several smaller subgroups which are represented by homeworlds. Each homeworld has its own unique theme and flavor.

The Purple Planet is the first homeworld of the TPE.

We are absolutely community minded. Members of the TPE are not required to join a specific group, stay with a specific group, or even be in a subgroup at all. You do however get out of TPE what you put into it.

This is a real time community, we will have hangouts, get togethers and interplanetary gatherings.

We are all from different worlds, but can still work together for a stronger community.